Workplace Bullying Institute



Chris and Eric Reading Wanda's Song (If You Were Me)

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The song grew into a national movement in 2007 called the Wanda Project, linking groups for school-age anti-bullying. Here's a description of the Project in its early stages.

The song by Nashville-based brothers group, The Readings -- Chris and Eric,

about regret after bullying-influenced suicide,

but with the profound question in the chorus that applies to the adult workplace,

a question to be asked of all bullies ...

Would you do the things you do if you were me and I were you?


Lyrics to Wanda's Song (If You Were Me)

Chris Reading, Eric Reading, John Paul Lourence
© 2004 Back, Back, Back Music. All rights reserved.

Wanda was the one girl we claimed we never knew
Lincoln High School's homely-coming queen
She barely graduated with the class of '92
Voted most unlikely to succeed

Rumor had it Wanda never knew who her daddy was
At least that's what we spread all over town
I guess we always thought that we were building ourselves up
With the sticks and stones we threw to break her down
All the years we thought it didn't matter
Cuz we never saw her cry
And Wanda never asked us

Chorus

Why, do you hurt me, and treat me like you do
What have I ever done to, deserve this, from you
Would you do the things you do
If you were me and I were you


Looking back I see the pain that we put Wanda thru
And just where all the fun and games were leading
We didn't realize the damage sticks and stones would do
Cuz it was deep inside Wanda was bleeding
The paper said her death was self-inflicted
But was it suicide?
Cuz the note she wrote said ...

Repeat Chorus

Bridge

For every action there's reaction
Broken hearts don't just happen
If you put yourself in their position
There's no good answer to the question ...

Repeat Chorus

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